The title looks like a spam email doesn’t it?
I had quite the day. A couple came in who couldn’t look more opposite. I’m 94% sure she was an escort. She was grabbing products here and there and being extremely loud. She came across the penis extensions and told him he needs to get one.
I laughed..to myself.. (I’m not that rude!) Then I felt really embarrassed for the man. I don’t care if you’re an escort, a girlfriend, a wife, you do not- under no circumstances whatsoever- tell the man you’re with that he needs one. Especially in public!
As a woman, I wouldn’t want anyone to know if my man has a small cock. I’m pretty sure a man wouldn’t want his woman talking about his size either. I also do know that when you’re in a sex shop you should never be the one to pick up the extension (it shows other people that you’re not satisfied.) Let him look at them and let him decide if he needs one.
The sheer purpose of a penis extension is to add length and girth. They come in all shapes and sizes and textures. Some even glow in the dark! That would be super creepy to see a man’s dick glow in the dark like some sort of creepy eel…
If you’re already confident with your size, but still want a little more, then go ahead and get an extension. I’m sure your woman would enjoy a big surprise like that. Don’t get crazy with how long you go because size is definitely not everything! (ie: Unnecessary Inches)
If you have a small cock, making it larger does not mean it will improve your sex game. Everyone knows it’s the motion in the ocean. And if your ocean is calm, then you my friend need more than a penis extension!
If you’re wondering how they feel, I have no idea. I do wonder if it will feel more like a dildo instead of a cock. I have a guy who comes in about once a month to buy a new extension. I’m intrigued as to why he get’s a new one all the time. Some day I’ll have the balls to ask him. For now I’ll let it remain a mystery.
I had a interesting/random conversation with a customer today. He was an older gentleman. He came in and was walking around and not really looking at anything. I asked if he needed help finding anything. He looked at me and smiled, and said, “you probably don’t have what I’m looking for.” Go ahead and ask, I tell him. He began telling me he’s looking for a movie, and it’s at least 40 years old. I walk with him over to our classics section and I asked if he knew the name of it. He said it was called Deep Throat. I grabbed it and showed it to him. He smiled even more. He looked at the cover for a while, then looked at the back. He said it was out of his price range at the moment, and I told him we always carry it if he would like to come back some other time. He began talking to me about it.
He said, “I saw this forty years ago in the theater. You weren’t even a thought in your mama’s mind!” I chuckled. “Not too long after I seen it, it was taken out of the theater, and the theater had closed down. I later learned that it was taken off the shelves completely.” I nodded along with him. Being “young” in his eye, I assume he thought I didn’t know my porn history! I told him I heard about the controversy of it all. He asked, “There’s worse stuff out there night, right?” I nodded in agreement again. “My how times have changed.”, he said. He then told me he might be back for it..(if he couldn’t find it cheaper, of course)..and told me to have a great day.
It’s so strange how that movie back then was considered so taboo. If you watched it now, you would probably find it dull compared to some of the hardcore movies and kinks out there now.
I definitely recommend seeing it if you haven’t! If you’re a porn addict, like myself, you will enjoy the history of it. It’s like being a movie buff and not seeing classics such as, The Godfather, or Casablanca.
And yes, the above photo is of me rocking my Deep Throat t-shirt!
“The End. And Deep Throat to you all.”
I’ve been pondering the sentence “this type of stuff” all day. I had an older gentleman today buy a few toys. He was asking what batteries each toy took and so on, and told me that his girlfriend is new to “this type of stuff”. I’ve heard this several times in the past seven years I’ve been at the store. I can’t help to wonder why women are so new to purchasing and using toys. When I hear that phrase it becomes frustrating, because it seems people are too sheltered.
Now what is this type of stuff they’re referring to? I can not answer that. Is it the environment? The content? Do they feel they will be judge by those in the store? To me, it’s like going to a department store. You’re there for a purpose, and hopefully that purpose is pleasure. In my opinion, if you’re having sex, you should not be embarrassed by objects at a adult bookstore. Sex is natural. Sex is a part of life. So what is wrong with talking about it, and or, being around it? When shopping at a sex shop, no one is forcing you to purchase anything you are not wanting to purchase. I’ve been asking around and most people agree with me. I did have one opinion that made sense to me. Even though a couple may be sexually active, they may not have ever used toys or watched porn while in the act. So therefore they would be nervous/intimidated to walk into a sex shop.
Personally, I’ll never forget my first trip to a adult bookstore. I remember the first toy I bought. I was 18. My friends and I were finally at the age to where we were allowed to go to porn shops. Most of us were already sexually active, so we were excited to see what was out there. It was pretty intimidating at first. Besides getting weird looks from the men that were browsing the store, seeing all the novelties was amusing to us. I remember all I could think about was what the hell to buy. I didn’t know the difference between any of the toys at the time. I thought they all did the same thing. The guy behind the counter was older and not that friendly looking, so I didn’t dare approach him for any help. I was looking at the vibrators and I seen a cute straight pink one. It was $17.99 and being a broke college kid at the time, it was in the perfect price range for me. I was the only one out of my group of friends to buy something. And I was ridiculed of it. Which even back then, I didn’t know why it was such a big deal to them. I they weren’t looking to buy anything, I couldn’t figure out why we even had stopped there then. I brought it up to the register. The clerk asked if I needed batteries, and I remember blushing because my friends were laughing when he said that. I politely said no, handed him the cash, and I was on my way. That was my first experience with buying and using a toy. I had never found it to be odd, or wrong. If anything I think it’s great for women to keep at least one in her house.
In this day and age I would think people would be more open sexually and not think of adult bookstores as a taboo or a dirty book store. Like I’ve said in a previous post, it is a fun environment. No intimidation or judgement. The people who work at these stores now are very friendly and willing to help you out if needed. And if you’re that nervous, I suggest browsing the internet and checking things out before you head out to your local sex shop. That way you know what to expect when you walk in. Become familiar with it and have fun with it!
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