His first toy


The photo above is the Egg stroker from Tenga.  They’re small, fit right in the palm of your hand and are disposable.  It’s a pretty popular product at our store.

Today I helped a guy pick out his first masturbator.  He came in and was looking around for a while. He was a younger guy, I’d say around 20-21.  I watched him pick up and set down over 15 different toys.  I approached him and asked if he needed any help.  He was a little hesitant at first.  He said he’s never bought a toy before and heard about the strokers, but didn’t know what was a good product.  I went down the line of them all and explained pros and cons of each.  He thanked me and said he would look around some more.  So I backed off and gave him his space.  He called me over a few minutes later and he said he couldn’t decided between a Tenga product or a pocket pussy.  Eventually he chose the Tenga stroker and then I asked if he needed any lubricant.  Again, another thing he’s never purchased before.  He wanted to know what most people bought.  The most popular lube we sell is Wet.  He kept eyeing the warming one, and I asked if he’s ever used a warming one before to which he answered no.  I told him that most people say it’s a little intense at first.  His eyes widen with curiosity and he said he definitely wanted to try it.  I rang up his purchases and watched him run to his car.  I’m sure he couldn’t wait to get home to try it.

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Sex Lubricants


“Wet” “System JO” “Foreplay” “KY” “Swiss Navy” there are hundreds of different brands of lubricants out there in the world. Water, oil, and silicone based. Warming, cooling, and flavored. The question is, “What is the best lube?”. Most people, when choosing, want a lubricant that doesn’t get sticky. If you have used lubricants before, then you know what I mean. Sadly most lubricants just end up that way!

Most people opt out for water based because they tend to be cheaper. If you think about it, the water based ones will end up absorbed in the skin and dry out faster, so you will have to use more than you probably intended to. The best water based lube I recommend is called Slippery Stuff. You can’t beat the price on it, and you normally can use less than you would with any other water based lube. Also, System JO makes for a really great option. Those are the top two that work well without the sticky mess. Wet 4-in-1 Fun Flavors is a good product as well because it’s a lubricant, massage, warming, and flavored. Two water based lubricants I would not recommend are Astroglide, because it gets sticky, and KY original formula because it has been known to cause yeast infections in women. But KY is a decent brand for anal.

For silicone lubricant I think the best out there is Wet Platinum. The price is a little higher than a water based, but it is extremely worth it. System JO makes great silicone lubricants that I would recommend also. Those are the top two silicone based lubes that do not get sticky. I should mention if you choose and oil based lubricant you cannot use it with latex toys, or latex condoms. It can create tiny holes in the latex.

For anal sex most customers are looking for a desensitizing lubricant. Anal-Eaze is the top choice. It’s priced fairly and it gets the job done, hopefully pain free, if it’s used right! People tend to scare away from it because we have Cherry Flavor Anal-Eaze. When they ask me why it’s flavored, and I explain that it’s for people who enjoy ass to mouth sex they look at me in disgust. I’m not telling you to do that. I’m just answering your question. If you don’t want to know, then don’t ask!

These are just my opinions. When you shop for a lubricant you should buy small bottles, or one-use packets if possible, to see what works best for you solely or you and your partner.

Happy gliding! 😉